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Hi Reader, I was talking with another horse mom last week, and she told me about the first few weeks at one of their old barns. Her family knew nothing. They didn’t know where things were kept, who to ask for help, or how anything worked. What saved them was an adult rider who took them under her wing and showed them the ropes. So many of us have been that family. We spend so much energy deciding whether to move barns that we don’t think about what happens once the horse steps off the trailer. That’s what this week’s episode is about. 🎧 Ep 31: Settling Into a New Barn with The Boujee Broke Mom My guest is Magda Lubov, better known as The Boujee Broke Mom. Her family’s move happened fast. She gave notice on a Wednesday, and her horse was on the trailer that Saturday morning. We talk about:
My favorite part was her advice at the end. Every barn will have something you love and something you don’t. You just have to decide what matters most for your kid, your horse, and your family. If you’re still at your first barn, enjoy every moment. If your kid keeps riding, there will probably be a second barn someday. 🎧 Listen on Apple Magda runs The Tack Room, a membership for horse moms with monthly Real Talk Zooms, educational webinars, and printable resources like budget blueprints and show packing lists. Use code Fall2026 for 40% off your membership for life. Thanks to our Sponsor! Moving barns usually means discovering everything you’re missing (or left behind), from an extra halter to a new set of buckets. Big Dee’s has you covered, and you can use code BHM10 for an additional 10% off your order. Tell Me Your Story Hit reply and tell me: How long has your kid been riding, and how many barns have you been at? I read every response, and your stories help shape future episodes. Alright, that's all for this week, friend. Leg on! P.S. Love what we're doing here at Broke Horse Moms? Pop on over to https://buymeacoffee.com/brokehorsemoms and contribute as little as $1 to support us. P.P.S. Missed a newsletter? See previous posts here. |
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