🐎 BHM: This is what horse moms are supposed to do


Hi Reader,

Am I the only one who thought the hardest part of bigger horse shows would be the actual competing?

Over the last few weeks, I've spent hours on the USEF website preparing for Pony Finals. I've downloaded forms, read the prize list, made packing lists, scheduled the vet and farrier. I felt ready.

Then, I realized I still had an entire list of questions, and none of them were answered anywhere official.

  • When do we actually arrive?
  • Do we really need a golf cart?
  • What happens the second we pull into Kentucky Horse Park?
  • What events should we make time for?
  • What if we forget something important?

So I invited Laura Greenstreet, founder of the ​Pony Jumpers USA Facebook group​ and mom to ​pony jumper rider Cora​ who's attend Pony Finals THREE TIMES onto the podcast and basically peppered her with every question I could think of.

By the end of our conversation, I felt something I wasn't expecting:

Relieved.

Not because I suddenly knew everything, but because the unknown didn't feel nearly as intimidating anymore...which is exactly what I'm hoping you'll feel after listening.

Yes, we talk about Pony Finals. But what you're really listening to is one horse mom sharing #allthethings she wishes she'd known with another horse mom who's going in blind.

Which is EXACTLY how most of us learn this sport.

Now...if you ARE headed to Pony Finals this year, I did pull everything Laura shared, with links, into a free resource for you:

Grab it here: ​The Unofficial Pony Finals Guide for Parents​

Pony Finals Tips From a Mom Who's Been There (Three Times) w/Laura Greenstreet

🎧 Listen on Apple​
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🎧 Listen on the Broke Horse Moms site​


🐎 What's saving my horse mom life right now

  • What I've been watching (besides The First 48 and reality TV): FAULTLESS on the Roku Channel - a super interesting documentary on the highest level of show jumping.
  • VRBO and Instacart - knowing that we have a house to spread out in at Finals AND the ability to get groceries delivered helps with the planning SO MUCH.
  • Huge thanks to Big Dee's Tack and Vet Supply for their support of the podcast. Use code BHM10 for 10% off your entire order, sale items included.
  • Time Sensitive 🀣 Support Chloe and this Broke Horse Mom on our Pony Finals journey

As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts.

What's one thing you wish someone had told you before your first big show?

I'm collecting them for a future episode because I have a feeling none of us are asking these questions alone.

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Angie

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